Are you, like thousands of others out in the big bad world of online dating with the hopes of finding that true love?  Are you fed up with the messages of “Hi beautiful” or worse just “Hi”?

And what about those likes? What on earth is a like? If you truly like someone aren’t they worth a few minutes of your time to craft a few sentences…and men wonder why they don’t get responses, right?

Well, I can’t help the men that don’t want to make the effort to snag a catch like you. You are uniquely you, beautiful, smart, engaging and worthy of a man that treats you with respect and loves you for who you are.

Online dating really can be different. It doesn’t have to be so difficult. Why’s that? Because YOU get to be the difference. I have created a free guide giving you my top three tips on how to stand out like a flamingo in a flock of pigeons in the online dating world.

You’re going to attract high-value men that know your worth and will respect and cherish you. You are going to start receiving messages with substance and appeal. Imagine how that would feel? Fabulous, right?

Online dating really can be different. It doesn’t have to be so difficult. Why’s that? Because YOU get to be the difference. I have created a free guide giving you my top three tips on how to stand out like a flamingo in a flock of pigeons in the online dating world.

Love is not elusive, it is right in front of you. Yes, there are loads of people online and everyone is looking for different things. So much to choose from, and choice can make it more difficult.

I assure you that there are plenty of decent, respectable men online looking right now for the love of their life. Men that are monogamous, upstanding, caring and loving. Men that will treat you as you deserve to be treated. Men that are looking for an equal, a partner, and that their actions speak louder than words.

You are uniquely you, beautiful, and you know your worth and what you deserve. Which is why we are going to craft your profile to attract the kind of man into your life that you desire.

I am so excited to be sharing with you my top three tips to make your profile stand out from the crowd. Yes, intelligent men that are looking for a special relationship will actually read your profile. They want to feel your essence come across in your words.

The top three tips to making your online profile stand out.

(Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons)

Be what you want to attract

BE POSITIVE!!!

Don’t you dislike it when you read profiles that say, “No drama!”? What on earth does that mean? If you want to attract positive, affirming men , then project an image of a glass half full kind of woman. Make sure you give off positive vibes. Don’t say what you don’t want, don’t say that you won’t date a person of a certain political party, or you don’t like facial hair! Rather say what values you would like to see. Come across as cheerful, and likable, not a negative Nellie.

You can be discerning when you receive all those amazing messages. That’s when you can filter out the men, but you don’t want to repel what could be amazing potential dates by coming across as negative.

Go and look at your profile right now. If you have any negatives i.e what you don’t like…then remove them. Use that real estate to say something witty or interesting about yourself.

You need to manifest what you want. You are on a dating site, so put your best foot forward and sell yourself. Don’t say, “My best friend convinced me to be on here” No, you are a woman on a mission, and you are CHOOSING to empower yourself and find yourself a man that you deserve.

Don’t say “No hookups” You’re a class act, and your photos and carefully worded profile is going to attract high-quality men, not men that want casual sex. You are putting out to the universe what you want to attract. If you send out positive, upbeat vibes, you will attract a positive man.

Don’t use the precious space you have to talk about what you don’t want. Pessimism isn’t attractive. Negativity is not sexy!

It amazes me how many people use their limited profile real estate to talk about what they don’t want or show their cynicism, bitterness or pessimism.

The better you are at attracting the right people, the more the wrong ones won’t be attracted to you. Besides – you can’t avoid being contacted online by some people you don’t want to date – that’s par for the course. Your focus instead should be on being contacted by those you do want to date!

CRAFT A STORY

You have to paint a vivid story that depicts your best qualities without it being an epic novel. Who are you? What’s your passion? Speak from the heart and connect with the kind of man that you are seeking. Are you a very feminine woman that loves the polarity that a man in tune with his masculine essence brings…then say it. Do you love volunteering at the local dog shelter, or love going for long walks? Share what you are passionate about and infuse your profile with your enthusiasm and love for life.

Use 3 or 4 adjectives that describe you and your personality. Are you bubbly, funny, affectionate, creative, or loyal? This is not the time to be coy about your positive attributes. Think about how your friends would describe you.

Lastly, be honest about what you are seeking. If you are looking for a long-term monogamous relationship, say it. Likewise, if you want something more casual, then state it. You aren’t going to find what you are looking for unless you are very concise and to the point.

It is more effective to focus on attracting the right people than repelling the wrong ones.

GIVE HIM A HOOK

It’s hard in the dating world…so why not make it easier on him. Instead of” I love to cook”. Ask a playful question, “Would you prefer my filet mignon or my signature pasta dish? How about desert or are you sweet enough? I make a mean decadent flour less cake!

You love to play tennis? “Would you be my tennis partner? I promise to take it easy on you!”

Encourage light-hearted banter between you, so he will be eager to engage and send you more than just a “Hi” message. You are giving him the lure, and allowing him to take the bait so you can reel him in.

In the process, you come across as fun, approachable and someone that he would love to meet. Remember what you project you will attract.

Focus on character not characteristics

This works both ways, for you describing yourself, and for what you are looking for in a partner. If you focus on the characteristics you are looking for such as active, ambitious you sound a lot less picky than “Seeking fit, wealthy individual!” You want to focus on characteristics which will align with your values which will resonate with like-minded people.

Are you expressing what is both unique to you and what is attractive to who you want to date? If you can do that, you are winning! And you just might meet the perfect person for you online.

Just remember, your Mr. Right is out there for you. Yes, you are going to have to meet a few frogs on the way to finding your prince, you might meet a player or two, but for the most part, you are going to invite good, high-value men that align with your values and you are highly attracted to. Love is out there, and you are going to invite into your life love, and lots of it.